In this article I will discuss how women make men feel completely useless by using a few ungrateful words. I will how these few words can shatter a man’s confidence and make him pull away his commitment in a relationship.
I will also explain how this is a woman’s true nature that she cannot change which is is clearly defined in the Prophetic Hadith of Rasool Allah 
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Men’s selfish truth
Most men throughout history have always tried their best to make sure that their wife is happy by working hard and providing her with everything that she asks for. Many times they have provided things that she didn’t need or even ask.
These husbands tell other people and most importantly themselves that they are doing their duty and it is their job to provide for their wife and children. They will cite Quranic passages and quotes from different scholars to prove to people that they are good fathers and husbands.
But often in life, we humans tell lies to each other and to ourselves to hide the real truth that we are too afraid to speak about.
How much you do, doesn’t matter!
For women, it doesn’t matter how MUCH you do for them. The only thing that matters is how OFTEN you do things for them, or said in another way, they only care about how many times you did things for them.
For example, if a husband provides a whole mountain of gold, that only registers in a woman’s mind as one occasion that he provided something huge for her. A woman’s emotional mind doesn’t understand the fact that it took the man multiple years of hard work, blood, sweat, and tears to gather the huge pile of gold, and they are blind to the amount of work needed to create so much wealth.
Women don’t know what hard work is
Men can understand the value and hard work that went into creating the pile of gold because they have done hard work themselves as a man in the outside world, so they understand another man’s struggles. But women have no idea about real hard work.
Modern women often moan, complain, and call men lazy whilst they sit on a comfortable office chair, in an air conditioned building, safe from danger and harassment, whilst men are working in life threatening situations in extreme heat and cold temperatures and dealing with harassment on a daily basis.
Women are ignorant like children
Just like children don’t understand and appreciate how much their parents sacrifice for them, wives can not understand how much sacrifice and hard work men have to endure to create a mountain of gold. Children think that paying bills, buying food, and clothes is all easy and they deserve it. In the same way, a woman’s emotional logic thinks that creating wealth and a mountain of gold is easily doable and all of this nice treatment is her right and she deserves it.
For a husband, his wives are literally like children because they act and behave in exactly in the same way as children, so he has to deal with a woman in the same manner. I detailed this concept in my recent post. You can read up on it by clicking Here.
Rich Fakes
The richest women in the world either inherited money from men in their family, or manipulated the legal system to steal it from their husbands. Not one of them has built anything from scratch because they are not capable of doing so. You can read in detail who they are, and who they got all their money from in this article.
The Expiring Gift
This short proverb on the right is exactly how and what women think about their husband’s extravagant and huge gifts. Their hypergamous minds only register it as 1 gift, no matter how big and expensive it was or how much effort it took to eventually buy that gift.
In a woman’s emotional mind, what has happened is gone. It holds no value the next day.
It is important to understand this behaviour in a woman’s nature because women speak logically, but they nearly alway act out emotionally.
The Strategy
What I advise is that Muslim husbands should not make huge sacrifices or commitments that take them many years to complete just so that they can make their wife temporarily happy, because their wife will not appreciate the amount of hard work her man puts towards this goal. It’s not worth it.
She will be very happy in the moment, but she will most likely act ungrateful to you about your gift only a few days later when you try to get appreciation and sex from her in return for your expensive gift.
That is why you should not bother with big expensive surprises and gifts. Instead, what you should be doing is providing smaller gifts and giving these gifts more often and more frequently whenever she behaves well.
She knows
As I explained earlier on, the main reason behind a man’s love and appreciation towards their wife is to get sex from her. Women very clearly know and understand this hidden motive behind a man’s loving behaviour, but they act dumb and play along to get what they actually want out of a relationship; wealth & resources.
Once you realise that a woman is aware of your primary goal to get sex from her, you will understand that women will never appreciate you for your very expensive gift because, if it took you 2 years to save up the money to buy her a gold ring, and she gives you an equal return, that means that she now owes you 2 years of constant sex.
So if she very easily provides you with the most valuable thing she has which is her body, there will be nothing else left to seduce you if she wants you to do something extra. She will lose her power. That’s why men never get an equal sexual return for their hard work.
My Precious
Additionally, women instinctually understand that they can’t give away their most precious thing so often because that would make them look easy to their husband. This kind of easy attitude from a wife makes a man think that if she is so easy with me every time, then she must have been easy before marriage.
Now that you understand why a woman is ungrateful to your favours, let’s understand how you can easily obtain her body for your pleasure and earn the Sawab by completing this Sunnah in the process.
Cash In On Your Favour Quickly
The only time a woman will say yes to sex is when she is in the mood. The only time she is in the mood is when her husband does something to impress her. This is pretty obvious.
But what is not so obvious is that her mood will change when she wakes up the next morning or even earlier. She could get a phone call from a friend or family member that will extinguish the lustful fire of appreciation that was burning.
That’s why it’s crucial that you cash in on the favour you done for her as soon as possible. You must not let the opportunity get wasted, because if you leave it off for too many hours, she will start making excuses about being tired, smelling bad, headache, body ache, housework, and kids duties to get away from any sexual activity.
It is a major Haram for a woman to deny her husband sex, but our modern Muslim women don’t really care about that. For them, religion is an act they do to earn high status and respect in the eyes of other women and to control their husband by pretending to be more pious and ‘God-fearing’ than him. Their real religion is Feminism which they have learnt from the media.
Hadith – 3 Reasons To Deserve Hell
The beloved messenger of Allah informed his companions that when Hell was shown to him, he saw that the majority of the hell dwellers were women who were ungrateful.
His noble companions asked if these women were ungrateful to Allah, but the Beloved Messenger replied that these women of hell were the following:
- Ungrateful to their husbands.
- Ungrateful for the favours done for them.
- They say, “You’ve never done anything good for me!”.
These are the main reasons mentioned in the 29th Hadith of Bukhari Shreef. You can check up on the Arabic and the exact wording by clicking Here.
1. Ungrateful to their husbands.
This wording in the Hadith mention that women are ungrateful to their husband.
The simple fact that a husband is going to protect, feed and care for another human who can’t protect herself for the next 70-80 years simply because she can give him sexual pleasure for an hour or less every few days, means that the husband is doing her a massive favour simply by making her a part of his life and taking on her responsibility.
Women don’t want to accept that they are the weaker gender and make all kinds of delusional statements because there is always a man waiting around who will say yes to everything she says no matter how absurd or delusional it is, so that he can hopefully get access to her body.
These male feminists are actually desperate sexual predators in disguise.
Women boast that they don’t need a man. But they always need to go to the shopkeeper, mechanic, plumber, phone repairer, taxi driver, policeman, or father for help when they get stuck in life problems. This behaviour is proof that women are spoilt and they are blind to the privileges they have everyday.
The only time they understand the privileges that they had, is when they are taken away from her. By that time, it’s usually too late. This is the reason behind why we as Muslims, shouldn’t demand reasons for Islamic orders. We have to carry them out even if these reasons don’t make sense to us. That’s why Allah says in the Quran:
If we don’t have a problem following mad rules made by the government that we don’t understand, Muslims shouldn’t require a reason to follow Allah’s rules simply because they don’t sense yet.
2. Ungrateful for the favours done for them.
In Islam, the husband’s duty is to provide food, safety, clothing, and a place to live. That’s it!
Everything else is a favour upon the wife. So all those milkshakes, new suits, phone covers and free rides are not a part of his obligation. All of these things are extras that husbands do for their wives in the hopes of maybe getting sex. They are classified as favours which are not part of a husband’s obligatory duty.
As this Hadith states, women are ungrateful for these favours done upon them/for them which is mentioned clearly.
3. They say, “You’ve never done anything good for me!”.
All men in marriages are familiar with the experience that no matter how much they do for their wives, and how much effort they put in an activity or event, women will waste all of this hard work by simply saying that the man has “Never” done anything for them.
They usually say this rubbish in a temporary state of anger, but they never realise that such words hurt a man so deeply that he can starts to back out of the relationship. Women live a life of blind privilege and they think that men make money easily so they don’t understand what hard work is.
It is this negative nature of women that Rasool Allah mentions in this Hadith:
If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them (your wives), and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, “I have never received any good from you.”
Bukhari – Kitab Al-Iman: 29
Conclusion
Muslim men need to understand that no matter how much you do for her and what lengths you go to to make her happy, when a woman is unhappy she will say hurtful things to cause you pain.
This may be very stupid and land them in Hell, but it is their nature. Men have been granted the power of strength and women have been granted the power of the manipulation as stated in the Quran:
No doubt, you women’s manipulations are tremendous. (Surah Yusuf: 28)
As with every post, my intention is not to spread hatred towards women. Instead, it is to make modern Muslim men see their poisonous nature and deal with them with love, just like dealing with children. When men don’t understand why women behave this way, they take women’s manipulative nature personally and end up carrying out physical abuse that can even lead to loss of life.
Having understanding of women’s TRUE nature prevents these kind of unfortunate events and gives men the mental tools to deal with such problems wisely.
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