Women are always looking for the best man because it is their nature, even if they are married. Muslim men give their full time, physical commitment and money to their wives because they think that their wife truly loves him.
In this article, I will discuss the title of this post with modern research and Islamic references so that men can have a complete understanding of women’s nature.
It doesn’t exist
Bollywood and modern Western media have brainwashed modern Muslim men to think that once they get a woman, she will stay with him forever. Something similar to the Disney cartoon delusion of ‘Happily Ever After!’.
This propaganda is nothing more than a dangerous recipe for disaster that effects all men and women from any culture, nation, or religion. It doesn’t exist in real life. But my articles are for the Muslim men to change their ways so I will focus on how it effects us.
Losing control
Men believe this media rubbish about how women should be, and they lose control when their wife wants to leave them after they have dedicated so much time and effort into the relationship.
Women will repeat the same rubbish they have heard from other ladies about how they are not happy in the relationship and they don’t want to be with him anymore.
In this unstable mental state, men become violent, dangerous and uncontrollable. They make bad decisions in anger that they later deeply regret. They could end up going to jail, harming their wife and children, damaging causing in their home or whilst driving.
Saving solution
If men know and accepts what women are and what their true nature is, they won’t be stressed if things turn out bad after they have invested so much into the wife.
Men with understanding will not have false expectations about their woman and so their expectations will never be broken.In this way, men can avoid the stress and stay happy.
The woman who wanted to leave them will stay when she sees that she cannot control him using her manipulation. This strength of not being controlled by a woman, makes men more attractive in the eyes of women.
In a woman’s mind, men who cannot be controlled are strong and therefore very attractive and those that can be controlled are weak.
Hide your emotions
This is one of the major reasons that men cannot express their emotions to their wife. She may like it externally, but internally it is a turnoff as it signals to a woman’s nature that if this man cannot even handle his own problems, he isn’t strong enough to handle my problems. To a woman’s nature, such a man is unreliable if she cannot trust her future to him.
If a man buys a car and the seller warns him that the vehicle has a problem, the buyer will not be angry if the cars breaks down after 2 years because the buyer was always ready with a backup plan to save himself. He will suffer, but he will not be angry.
Conclusion
Women are hypergamous and they will always be on the lookout for better options. She may not be able to take that better option because she fears a bad reaction from family or relatives, but hypergamy is a part of her nature just like it is a man’s nature to be attracted to other women.
Do you disagree that there are women who are not hypergamous? Let me know what you think.
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