In this article you will discover why women should not be given the power to make decisions. It always fall upon the men to fix things when mistakes happen. It’s better for men to take control because they will be blamed and punished no matter who makes the mistakes.
Women are children
Wives are like children. And exactly like children, when they mess things up they run away from the mess they’ve created. Just like a child doesn’t know what is good or bad for them, women also have to be kept away from doing things that we men know isn’t best for them. Men are the natural leaders and protectors of their families.
Qur’anic standard
As Allah clearly mentions here in the Holy Qur’an:
“Men are in charge of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other….”
Surah An-Nisa: 34
There is no Equality in Islam
Modern Muslim women have grown up with TV that constantly filled their minds with rubbish about being equal to men and that they are just as capable as men outside the home in the big wide world. It is this same belief about being equal that makes them not accept this Ayah of the Qur’an because it goes against what they are brainwashed with.
It’s very interesting to know that there is no mention of men and women being equal anywhere in the Qur’an or in the Prophetic Hadith. If women were ever equal to men, Allah would have sent a female Prophet.
Any Islamic books and articles showing women to be equal to men are basically the corrupt modern Qur’anic translators bending over backwards to help Western feminism and capitalism. Making women think they are equal to men helps to get women into the workforce and do jobs so the governments can earn more tax from every woman that works.
This way every family can have at least 2 adults paying taxes to the government instead of just the 1 man.
By making the West happy, these ‘scholars’ can brag about being reformed, moderate, and ‘properly’ educated, when in reality they are just mouth-pieces for Western ideas.
The new religion of Science
Whenever any new ‘scientific’ discovery is made, all the major religions suddenly find it in their Holy books too. That’s weird. Why didn’t these scholars find it before Western science?
If they are changing their books or the translations to fit Western science and it’s fictional ideas, what is their real religion?
But everybody believes it!
If everyone believing in an idea makes it the truth, then why did the West not accept the shape of the Earth as being flat. Everybody in the whole world believed the Earth was flat. Why did Western education reject what everyone believed?
Making many people believe in an idea doesn’t make it the truth.
In the same way, just because the feminist beliefs reached every house through the radio and TV to make women believe that they are equal to men, doesn’t make it the truth.
What did the father do?
Whenever the husband wants to stop his Modern selfish Muslim wife from something that will be bad for her so she can be protected, these women will shut him down by their husband’s protective actions ‘controlling behaviour’ and labelling him as being an insecure man. This is manipulative and nasty behaviour. It’s called Narcissism. You can read up on it’s definition here.
But it is always satisfying to see these women’s reaction when you ask them about their father’s behaviour. Was he controlling and insecure, or was he being protective?
Accountability, her biggest weakness
Throughout human history, women have always ran away from accepting it was their mistake when things go bad. It has always been men like the father, husband, brother, son, or other male relative that had to step in to clean up the mess that she created.
If the leader properly understands the behaviour of all the people he is in charge of, he can look after them better, just like a boss can be better if he knows his staff and their problems. A man’s family is like a herd of sheep and he is the shepherd in charge. Rasool Allah’s (
) advice here is clear:
“A man is the guardian of his family and he is responsible for them…….No doubt, every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock.”
Sahih Bukhari 7138 – Sahih Muslim 1829
A man needs to understand that his wife is a 12 year old girl who will be unreasonable and have her temper tantrums. He cannot reason with a child. He has to take the lead and make the decisions just like her father did during her childhood.
If modern Muslim women don’t have a problem being told off and treated like a child by the boss or the teacher, then they shouldn’t have a problem being treated like a child by the husband who keep her alive by providing a free roof over her head, free food, free clothing and giving free rides along with providing her services like mobile phone contracts, wifi, gas and electric and free gifts on special occasions out of his own pocket.
Men weren’t born to be slaves. Men are born to be leaders.
Conclusion
No company, ship, army, congregation, or vehicle has 2 equals. There is always 1 leader, 1 boss or 1 driver who is responsible for everything. Relationships are no different.
That’s my experience and personal observations. What do you think? Do you agree with me or have you got a different perspective?
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