Do you want to raise children who can be good obedient Muslims that you can be proud of in this modern world full of Fitna? Are you unsure about how to handle your children to discipline them and keep them in line?
In this article I will discuss the biggest unspoken and obvious truth about raising children that everyone is afraid to express along with what mental attitudes to know and adopt to play the correct role in your children’s life as their father and leader.
Spoilt Children & Criminals
We can all see very clearly how young children are spoilt and ignorant. They choose to disobey parents, teachers and other authorities so that they can fit in with a group of bad people who admire them for terrible human behaviour.
The Youth Justice Statistics published by the UK government, show that children between 15 to 17 years of age made up 74% of offender in the whole population.
This is the biggest reason why we need to take back control of our children. Governments take control of our children to brainwash them with Satanic and Atheistic ideologies through the school and movie industry. With this pathway, the children grow up to become mindless loners and consumers of the capitalistic marketplace.
When the children become broken, criminal members of this capitalistic society, they are thrown into jail and the father is blamed by his family and left to clean up the mess that the oppressive system forcefully created.
The Eldest Child
If you get the eldest child in line, all the children will happily accept your orders and authority. But if the eldest child is spoilt then the rest of the children will also ignore your instructions and act spoilt because they learn that this attitude is OK by watching the eldest child. That is why it is crucial to exercise your control over the eldest child to maintain your position and authority as head of the house.
You must also make sure that when you discipline your eldest child that the rest of the family can see your authority. By showing your power in front of everyone, you teach them how to behave and react when you are being dominant which makes them accept your behaviour and normalises you as the leader and decision maker.
Father VS Officer
This is also one of the main reasons that all police officers wear the same uniforms, make a scene and create a lot of noise with sirens when they arrive, and shine bright lights and colours at everyone to make the public respect them and their authority. If the police have the right to force your wife and children to accept their authority with these displays of power, you have way more legitimacy and right to have control over members of your family in your household who you are sincerely protecting and providing for until your final breath.
It is disgusting in this modern age that a man’s family does not accept the father’s authority who pays for everything everyday, but this same family will show high respect to a random police officer, politician or Imam who has never done anything for them even once.
A Life of Regret
A white haired elder (Buzurg) who was extremely fed up with his young adult children’s antics and disobedient behaviour, once told to an Imam that if suicide wasn’t Haram he would have committed it by now.
This kind of existence where the man is living a miserable and empty life can lead to depression where the man just gives up on life.
That’s why it is important to fix your children so that they walk the path you set for them instead of a path set by the government that leads them towards Kufar and eventually, Atheism.
Your Wife is Your Eldest Child
As I revealed before, the eldest child needs to be under your control for you to succeed as the leader of your house and your family, because when your eldest child talks back to you or ignores you, the other children learn that treating you with this kind of bad behaviour and attitude is acceptable and they can do it too.
What is not so obvious is that this eldest child in your house isn’t someone that goes to school or college. This eldest child is Your Wife!
Women are Children
For the Muslim husband, a wife is more equal to his children because he has to protect and provide for all of them. From the perspective of the husband, his wife is like the eldest child in the family who is responsible for baby sitting and caring for the younger children but she is still below him in rank and authority and must obey him more than she did her father before marriage.
That is the position that the Muslim husband holds for his Muslim wife. His ranking is way above her father such that he is worthy of prostration to him second after Allah. Allah’s beloved messenger 
said:
“……….If I were to command anyone to make prostration before another, I would command women to prostrate themselves before their husbands, because of the special right over them given to husbands by Allah.“
Sunan Abi-Dawud 2140
You can read up on the full narration and contents of this Hadith by clicking Here.
Similarities to Children
Here is a short list of similarities to change your mind and convince you that women are not equal to men in any way.
- They get out of trouble by crying or causing a tantrum when they mess up and can’t get what they want. They play the victim card and don’t take accountability.
- If they make a bad decision and get in trouble, they never accept it was their fault and blame other people or events. The men always have to sort things out and clean up the mess.
- They want to do something that you know and understand is bad for them.
- They don’t understand how the world actually works.
- They are easily influenced by media and propaganda.
Just like children, women have to be protected from their own silly mistakes because at the end of the day, it will always be the man who is expected to fix the problem while she cries about how unfair the world is. You can read more about this problem by clicking Here.
The Stairway to Hell in 4 steps
If your wife makes emotionally based decision about your child’s total upbringing, you can expect he following chronology to unfold:
1. The government sets a pathway for your children to follow.
Education is important, but a child doesn’t have to go to school to get education. School is the church of the science religion that gets children ready to be good Kafir Atheistic labourers instead of independent businessmen. The most important things like how to change a tyre, how to pay tax, and how to manage relationships are never taught in school.
2. Your wife wants to follow the false path to ‘progress’.
Men follow their leader, Women follow the crowd.
Our wives often try to persuade us using the logic that “Everyone is doing it!”. Strong men don’t really care if everyone is doing it because we have independent thought. But this nature of women is how governments control women by showing edited scenes in adverts or propaganda videos where ‘EVERYONE’ is doing the activity that they wish the masses to take up.
A child’s precious time of building memories with family and having a fun childhood are ruined by teaching impractically silly things like Algebra and Calculus which they can learn from the internet and Youtube when they are actually interested themselves. Some of the best hackers employed by the CIA were typical school dropouts who lived in their mother’s basement playing games and mastering skill they were actually interested in.
These images are enough to make women feel like their missing out, which very quickly changes their mind to accept the propaganda. Once our Muslim women accept the propaganda, they nag and moan until the husband accepts the new trend. This process doesn’t take too long because men don’t have sexual options and they don’t want lose out on the only sex they have. This is the precise reason that a man who cannot say no to sex cannot enforce his will because he is desperate.
If the wife doesn’t follow her husband’s lead, then the children will not follow their father’s leadership either. They will shout, moan, ignore, compete, give the silent treatment, criticise, and be ungrateful to their father because that is how their father was treated with by their mother and they observed that the father accepted this treatment. They will imitate what they saw as normal treatment towards the father.
With this mentality, when a wife argues with the husband about what education is best for the children, the children will agree with her because they fear her more than their father. They will also follow her because she has shown that she is the real leader.
3. Your children follow your wife’s lead instead of you.
This should also drive home the hard truth that there is no equality in anyway or form in the world in any job, or relationship, and neithier foes Islam allow it.
4. You lose control over your family and everyone blames you.
If the man of the house falls off his high horse, his wife and children treat him worse than anyone else in the world. A wife cannot bear to see her husband in a weakened state of hopelessness. She will turn nasty and punish the man for not living up to his role as protector and provider because she is stuck with him.
In the same way, when the children turn out bad, she will punish her husband for not protecting her children and her reputation in the world. She will not accept responsibility for ignoring her husband’s advice when she was told to stop many years ago. That’s why it is important to take the lead in the relationship and ignore her current justifications in the moment about equality and what everyone else is doing.
When the wife turns nasty to punish her husband, the children will copy the leader and punish their father too. They will all blame the father and hold him responsible.
Conclusion
This article has addressed many issues. I hope you were able to take in the information and understand it thoroughly.
The core concept that you need to take away is that ladies cannot be reasoned with logically. They only act when they are emotionally persuaded and a normal father doesn’t have time to spoil his wife by living up to the feminist standard of marriage which eventually ends in divorce anyway because a woman loses all respect for a man who has no independent purpose in life other than to be a slave to his wife’s desires.
Was there anything you disagreed with? Is there a point that you didn’t properly understand?Do let me know if there is something you need clarity on or if you disagree with anything by commenting below.